Ingin berkongsi lagi kebaikan ber'babywearing' Deeply apology of my mixing languages. Ada ayat yang saya kurang arif untuk diterjemahkan didalam Bahasa ibunda. takut maksud x sampai.
1. It
is convenient.
When I carry my little one in a wrap or ssc, I can walk around freely, not to worry about
negotiating steps, crowds or narrow aisles with a stroller. Saya juga dapat ber'dating' bersama suami, berpegang tangan. Masa couple kan haram.. SO, jgn jadikan anak penghalang untuk kita remain romantik dengan pasangan. Jangan dah ada anak sorang jalan depan, sorang jalan belakang. Saya juga mudah untuk menyusukan anak di dalam wrap/ssc and it allows for
discreet nursing in public places. My wrap also can sometimes be my changing pad,
blanket, or cushion when away from home. I've found my sling especially handy
when negotiating busy airports with a small child and several bags!
2. Wearing a baby
promotes physical development.
Apabila bayi dikendong, dia dekat dengan ibunya, mendengar jelas the rhythm of mummy's
breathing, the sound of mummy's heartbeat, and the movements the mother makd –
walking, bending, and reaching. Stimulasi ini membantu bayi to regulate his own
physical responses, and exercises his vestibular system, which controls
balance. The sling is in essence a "transitional womb" for the new
baby, who has not yet learned to control his bodily functions and movements.
Research has shown that premature babies who are touched and held, gain weight
faster and are healthier than babies who are not. Mechanical swings and other
holding devices do not provide these same benefits.
3. Babies worn in
slings are happier.
Studies have
shown that the more babies are held, the less they cry and fuss. Crying is exhausting for both the baby and his parents, and may cause
long-term damage as the baby's developing brain is continually flooded with
stress hormones. Babies who do not need to spend their energy on crying are
calmly observing and actively learning about their environment. Baby-wearing is
especially useful for colicky babies, who are far happier being worn, but
placid, content babies and children will also benefit greatly from the warmth
and security of being held close.
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| Fakta: My baby is a happy baby |
4. Baby-wearing
is healthy for you!
It can be
challenging for new mothers to find time to exercise, but if you carry your
baby around with you most of the day or go for a brisk walk with your baby in
her sling, you will enjoy the dual benefits of walking and
"weightlifting". A long walk in the sling is also an excellent way to
help a tired but over-stimulated child fall asleep. I am happy to have my 'exercise' around the mall with a happy and controllable baby hehehe...
5. Toddlers
appreciate the security of the sling.
Babywearing can be very useful for toddlers as well. The world can be a scary
place for toddlers, who feel more confident when they can retreat to the
security of the sling when they need to do so. Toddlers often become
over-stimulated, and a ride in the sling helps to soothe and comfort them
before (or after!) a "melt-down" occurs. It can be very helpful in
places like the zoo, aquarium, or museum, where a small child in a stroller
would miss many of the exhibits.
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| A visit to Aquaria bet to be differ having syakir carried to being him in stroller. |
6. Baby-wearing membantu anda berkomunikasi dengan anak.
The more
confidence we have in our parenting, the more we can relax and enjoy our
children. Itu satu point yg sangat valid. the baby could sense you, her/his parent, emotions. A large part of feeling confident as a parent is the ability to read
our baby's cues successfully. When we hold our baby close in a sling, we become
finely attuned to his gestures and facial expressions. Many baby-wearing
parents report that they have never learned to distinguish their baby's cries –
because their babies are able to communicate effectively without crying! Every
time a baby is able to let us know that she is hungry, bored or wet without
having to cry, her trust in us is increased, her learning is enhanced, and our
own confidence is reinforced. This cycle of positive interaction enhances the
mutual attachment between parent and child, and makes life more enjoyable for
everyone.
7. Babywearing is a
bonding tool for fathers, grandparents, and other caregivers.
Babywearing is a
useful tool for every adult in a baby's life. The baby is becoming used
to his voice, heartbeat, movements and facial expressions, and the two are
forging a strong attachment of their own. Fathers don't have the automatic
head-start on bonding that comes with gestation, but that doesn't mean they
can't make up for this once their baby is born. The same goes for babysitters,
grandparents and all other caregivers. Cuddling up close in the sling is a
wonderful way to get to know the baby in your life, and for the baby to get to
know you!
8. Providing a
safe place for a child to be.
Instead of
running loose in crowded or dangerous places, a child in a sling is held safe
and secure right next to your body. Slings also provide emotional safety when
needed, so that children can venture into the world and become independent at
their own pace.
9. A baby will be an independent baby.
Syakir has became a sociable baby, he is confident in himself, he is an explorer as well. He started his first step at the age of 11 months, first word at the age of 1 year, make a full sentence at 21 months. He is less fussy (won't 100% though) and he loves to make friends while we are at the park or playground.
10. Baby-wearing
is fun.
Who doesn't love
to cuddle a precious little baby? And when your baby is older, having her in
the sling makes conversations easier and allows you to observe her reactions to
the wonders of the world around her. It's also fun for baby, because when she
is up at eye level, other adults notice and interact with her more. Your child
will feel more a part of your life when she is in her sling, and you will find
yourself becoming more and more enchanted with this special little person.
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